On to the wants...
My
is that people will always want more.
I found out the hard way, more is not always good. It's always in context of everything else.
When I'm dealing with something I want, I try to ask myself - "Is this what I really want?"
What I want has got to stand the test of time.
Here's what I can't afford to do:
Spend money on things I nominally want.
I gotta pick and choose, what I can go without or what I must have in the wants department.
Sometimes delaying things is a good strategy too.
I sometimes time things too. Again, this is in context.
For instance, if I were choosing between two species of orchids I want, I will ask myself - "If I had to choose one, which one will I have a harder time finding?"
If orchid A is much more limited in availability, than orchid B (an orchid that can be found at the drop of the hat), my priorities will shift to orchid A first. And whenever I have the opportunity to, I'll go back for orchid B.
Another thing to consider is:
"How much of the things I want can I really handle."
I learned this through the mistake my father constantly makes (even to this day).
When you buy things, in my opinion, it's unwise to not deal with upkeep.
My mother always taught me, take care of your things. Whether they're items you need or want, take care of them like they're gold.
A bit of info I learned from personal finance class is that everything is worth something no matter how big or how small. Whether the worth is sentimental, monetary, or will somehow get you somewhere, it's worth something.
I'm sure you're at an age where you would recognize this iconic video game if I mentioned it...
It's like in "The Legend of Zelda". You obtain an object at a certain time in the game, but you don't know what it's used for right away. You hang on to it (actually, the game doesn't give you a choice of discarding the item anyways
). As the game progresses, you'll start seeing certain points in time where you will need to use that "initially useless" item in order to progress.