Aboard Mary, it's great you've joined our family, where a wealth of information awaits. I wish I was a bit well versed on Sophrolaeliocattleya, but I myself am a newbie of near 2 years, but am sure there are others who can chime in on your question. The OB has a
gallery where members share their orchid photo's, so please don't hesitate to take a photo or two of your chid-ren. You've put your analogy of raising your chids into perspective...
Not a bad start for your short time in "raising" your chids. Glad your here...