If the entire spike is unruly and you want it somewhat more "presentable", you can CAREFULLY stake the spike, but you don't ever want to touch the bud or area near it because one, as I said, it is natural for pretty much all paph in bud, and two, buds are extra sensitive.
You play around bending it no matter how careful, you risk blasting it.
Leave it and let it do its thing.
Once open, I think I will have pretty good idea as to what this thing is.
