well welcome and howdy Ed. I think they were waiting for me to tell you not to worry about the mealys on the phal. Theres not much left for them to eat. I think if I was a mealy I would have walked right on over to the lucky bamboo too
Dont get ya feelings hurt none and go out and buy another phal and try again. We have all watched our phals at one point or another take a suicide dive off the table and end up in the trash can.
As for transferring mealys with handling I would say no but you never can tell so you should always treat each plant as if it were infected with the worst crap you can imagine. Be consistent with this and you wont forget to use care and caution. Looking forward to seeing you with a nice pretty big phal very soon gracing your countertop.
Now for the lucky bamboo....if those are all mealys all over that plant. It needs to go far far far away from your orchids. You can wipe the mealys down with alcohol or you can use the RJ method and see how far lucky bamboo can fly