OfLeafandLimb |
03-04-2015 10:06 AM |
As far as I'm concerned, the moment that Herman Pigors' family retired and sold Oak Hill, it ceased to be Oak Hill. The remaining entity didn't count. I have since begun looking at Windswept in Time as my primary orchid source. So far, so good.
This also brings me to the discussion on drawing youth to the orchid community. I've been attending shows for over ten years, and growing orchids for over twelve. I bought my first orchid when I was 22. I'm a very recognizable person, and many people remember me when I see them each year. Still, some vendors speak condescendingly. Subsequently, I walk away. It's one of the reasons I was such a loyal Oak Hill customer. Greg always spoke to me more like a peer than a novice. Yes, he would give me growing information on the plants I bought, and I was always grateful for it; it's nice to get the background on any new plant from its grower before diving into research. The difference is that he approached me with the presumption that I understood what he was saying. He showed me respect. So did Liese on the occasions when I visited their greenhouse.
When I come to shows, I'm there more for camaraderie than for mentoring. Of course I still want to learn things. This is an enormous field of study, and there is always something to learn, but I want to exchange ideas, not be instructed. I want to gush about favorite plants, taste in flowers, stories of where I've seen orchids in the wild, and hear other people's related experiences. It's difficult to get into those conversations when older growers won't take us seriously, presumably due to our age, and the conversation never moves past trying to establish that we are invested in the hobby, and have some experience. It's disappointing to be continually relegated to the conversational kiddie table.
People will continue buying orchids without joining societies. I don't think the hobby itself will go away. If we want to maintain an orchid community, however, we need to treat incoming young persons with respect. Age and knowledge don't necessarily go hand in hand, and no one has all the answers. We never know what they have to offer, and so long as we are treating young collectors as students we must instruct, we will not find out. Being part of the orchid community should be fun, not formal, and I think that's the trick. ;)
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