thanks you all
yes jane these are very very time consuming from bud to blooming. took about 2 months for all 3 buds to open up and I say dec 2011 is when it started to form. so over 4 months total time.
I put this one in small fir bark, planted into a net basket surrounded by moss and then put in a fishbowl jar.
I didn't ever let it get too dry when it had buds. The plant has been outside for the most part. I put all 6 of my phals out for the temp drops in dec. and see how many spiked..3 of them and this one..Ya want phal spikes drop them temps. So its been kept very cool and on the drier side of evenly moist. It has even managed to get some morning sun.. I hope that helped some.