How to tell if Phal is wilting or simply finished flowering?

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Oh goodness. Okay. Ready for all my questions? I live in Alabama, so it's pretty humid here. I also have a lot of reptiles that need humidity in my room so I can put the Phal by one of their tanks. That might help. But I might just do the rock/pebble water thing under the pot. Since only some of the flowers are wilting, and not all of them, I guess they've just run their course. For the last couple of days, the Phal has been in my kitchen with no window. It's better to put it in an east-facing window, right? I'll do that in the morning. There's a fan I keep on in my room, so it will have good air flow.

I don't know what kind of media it's planted in. I dont know what the different kinds look like. I suppose I'll look up pictures to determine which type this little guy came with.