yes I know about the float bark is bad about that. most likely I will do the fertilizing for her but i will think about it. right now I only have one phal that does not have much of any roots and keeps falling out of the pot.
You could try drilling a small hole at the top and on opposite sides of the pot. Then take some string and run it from one hole over the bottom leaf on one side of the stem, through the hole on the opposite side, then back over the leaf on the opposite side of the stem and tie it off back where you started. That should hold it down and side to side.