So sorry it took me so long to thank you guys for the great advice! I STILL haven't decided what to do. I'm not afraid moving it to s/h will kill it, I'm afraid I will! The fact that I seem to be no good with anything other that phals is scaring me. I know dens can be touchy for some people so I'm sure my time is coming soon! Thanks again for the great replies and I'll keep you all posted on what I decide to do.