I am going out on a limb, especially on this board
and am going to say that the main reason a flower takes so long to open is that the pollinia are ripening. So an unopened flower does not have "ripe" pollen.
A good analogy is a flower in the garden - pollinators are around the flower when it first opens and I think that plants, including orchids, take advantage of that......and I am not sure which happened first in that relationship, a bit like the chicken and the egg story
My general experience with cross-pollination is that older pollinia, say more than a week or 2, are non-viable. I have also noticed that the sticky stamen/receptacle seems to ripen at a different time to the pollinia on the same flower and I think that is an attempt at genetic diversity. So there is a sequence of events in the life of a flower...
Sorry - I have never attempted your specific issue.
I am sure you will get someone replying with more theoretical/specific knowledge....