Hi Jkelee,
That is sooooo cool for you and your neighbor to discover the little bellies (I just luv this term) on her dendrob!
Rather than explain what you need to know here, I'll just post a link to a page on Ruben in Orchids website that explains it all for you, including pod harvesting times, flasking information and more. There is a link at the bottom of this page that will take you to his home page if you need to contact him.
Of course you could try flasking yourself of find a lab closer to your location, but you can mail the pods to him when they are ripe but still green. I have been using his services for my Vanda hybrids, and have been getting good results.
Good luck with whatever you do...and be patient...it takes a long time to bloom chids from seed.
Harvesting Times for Seed Capsules