Sorry to hear about your losses. Congrats on your baby girl! I definitely lost a few plants to neglect in the months following my son's birth in 2010. But it's all for a good cause.
Yeah for you with having a baby!!! Wish there was a really good "how-to" manual on all the things that they DON'T cover in those baby books . But they don't cover those subjects because they don't want to scare everybody off... I think most of those incidents have been blocked from my memory by trauma. I have three so I have triple the trauma, but it will all be ok later after the nervous twitch goes away ginnibug