It started with just a thick whitish thing on the leaf and some grainy black stuff like poppy seeds(but smaller) started to appear on the back of the leaves then appeared on the front. the orchid is a dendrodium
It almost looks like mildew (fungus). I don't think spraying with a fungicide will hurt. Try Daconil (Chorothalonil) or Immunox (Myclobutanil). Both are available at big box stores or garden centers and are sold as concentrate or ready-mix.
Some options:
1. Systemic insecticide.
2. Increase humidity (spider mites prefer dry conditions)
3. Spraying neem oil is also said to help eliminate spider mite infestations.