You're not being nearly as "aggressive" in your treatments as you think, and may actually favor the development of resistant strains.
Don't switch between treatments weekly. Instead, get a good insecticide labeled for mealy bugs.
Spray
every exposed surface of
every plant to dripping
AND drench the potting media.
Repeat that complete treatment two additional times at one-week intervals.
If, in about a month, you see the return of the infestation, repeat that complete 3-week process using an insecticide having a
different mode of action.
This document might be of help.