One big DUH for me! I forgot to put the name of it!!!
You are all right, it is a vanilla vine...sorry about that
I have it planted in African Violet mix, and had a regular stick in it at first but nothing was happening. I attached 4 ft of tree fern totem and a few days later...voila! I mist it heavily a few times a day to keep the aerial roots happy and when I water it, I water right down through the totem. Seems to be working. I'll have to be patient though, I understand vanilla needs to grow up AND down for a total of 15 ft before it even thinks about blooming!