Well, yes, but if you fuss too much with the orchids they object, so the forums give one something to do in the meantime .
Having no one else near me to talk orchids with, I enjoy my "social hour" each evening on the orchid forums. My hubby helps me when I need him to, but he really doesn't care that "this bud blasted," or "look this one finally opened". It's nice to have people to share with that appreciate that sharing.