No no no. You are approaching this all wrong… you have to trade. It’s simply a matter of allowing his hobbies to be the focus while you slyly add a shallow gradient bog area to the pond. Maybe you need a new biological filter area below the pump?? Lol

When I was younger it was well accepted that women changed their minds all the time, and men needed to adapt to that. Has anything changed?

In the overall scheme of things that has always been the norm. I've never been that normal... must have double clutched a gear during mitosis.

DC... MrWW's hobbies are by far the focus, let alone more expensive. He has horses. Enough said. :biggrin: I've thought about creating a bog the horses could wade in to keep hooves soft, however I'm sure they'd just eat the sarracena.

if they do it is part of the process lol...bogs get hooved visitors too, they make holes and divots for new moss and rhizomes to move and grow.

i love the idea of natural spaces that are ALSO filled with collectable and exotic plants

My brother told me I could have his wife's horses for free if I took them when she wasn't there and kept my mouth shut.