Okay, here's whats going on and I don't know what worked and what didn't or if anything worked.
I did install the active x with no change whatsoever. Last night it was taking anywhere from 5 to 7 minutes to go anywhere on this site. That was After installing the active x.
I did not install the flash do-wicky as I already have it and the waterfall was already animated.(which I think is very pretty)
So, a while ago I got a flash from Dell saying the Bios on the Inspiron E1705's needed to be updated pronto! (Pronto is my word, not theirs
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I have run the update and walla!!! the site runs just fine again.
I don't know what fixed the problem but I thought I would post this just in case anyone else is having problems or does in the future. Maybe this will help?
I thank everyone that responded to my plea for help!!!