OK, finally I am sick of it. AOL is now blocked from registration on OB. AOL is notorious for blocking forum emails...esp the e-mail confirmation messages. We get daily requests from people with AOL accounts complaining that they cannot post, because they never got a confirmation message...spam is off, etc... It's not you, it's AOL deleting your message and not even allowing it to go to your spam folder.
On top of that, if I send an announcement to everyone, it takes 1 or 2 AOL people to say that I sent spam for the whole server to be blocked from sending email to AOL...so now any user from AOL cannot get a notification that their thread got a reply...No thanks! Ditch AOL, it's junk! Use Gmail.
OK....I feel better now
