the problem was actually pretty serious on the server. Seems that someone out there was spoofing orchidboard.com and sending out spam. Just for the record it wasn't 'other forums' or any orchid terrorists, just pesky spammers doing their usual. Our server got completely bogged down. NOrmally our load is at less then 1 and things work just fine. When the server went down our load was at 800
I had to call the hosting company to physically go and flip the switch so I could log in and see where the problem was.
For the techies....Say someone sends out a million messages and they spoof our domain name (tricks the system into thinking that the messages are sent by someone from @orchidboard.com ie
ross@orchidboard.com). When half a million of the messages don't get delivered they come right back to our server. Our server will then work hard to try to re-deliver these messages. Spammer gets their V|@GR@ mail delivered and we end up dealing with the bogged down server. Or in this case, lack of a server. I installed a service that automatically deletes any message that bounce back that did not originate from our server. So now even if we get spoofed, we should be unaffected and stay up.
Just thought I'd fill you guys in on the problem we had. Of course, I was watching our little guy when this happened so I could not do a thing until the Mrs. got home... then took a while to figure things out...that's why it was down for so long and that's why the next day I had 10 cups of tea