Hi gngrhill
Looks like you tried many different things. I do not know the best growing conditions of this plant - maybe others can pitch in - but I have grown this plant for over 8 years and have been succesfull, so I hope I can help! It blooms every year. The plant likes to be moist but can also be prone to rot if kept too moist, and a mix that is too fine tends to stay too moist. I found that it likes some air in the roots, so I keep mine in a mix of fine and medium bark, mixed with sphagnum moss. When I bought it, it was in normal soil. Inexperienced as I was, I found out that almost all roots had rotten when it was almost too late

. Regarding water-regime, I soak it every 7-10 days like my other plants but I spray the soil every 2 days with rainwater. It's in a very shady spot, 2 meters from a north facing window. So it doesn't get much light.
It doesn't grow that fast for me in this spot, but looks very, very healthy. Right now it has 8 spikes..I did find out that the cuttlings I keep in my small warm terrarium with other jewel orchids grow like weeds. It's very warm and humid there, whilst the living room is not. It tends to be a bit cold here. My conclusion: it likes warmth better

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Good luck with your plant!