Philip, you just pushed the guilt button!
I know I was bad. It was one of my very first orchids and I really adored it as it was very different from other orchids that I've known. I was very sad when it died and I didn't buy any new orchids for a long time (until I found the Vanda last month). I had this little plant along a Phal and didn't know how to take care of it only knew that Phals don't like too much water so I did the same to this guy but turned out to be a bad thing.
It was on my kitchen windowsill but we had to remodel the kitchen so I had to move it away. Got too involved in the kitchen project, it was out of sight, out of mind for a while then it was too late
I promise to do my best if I find another one of these