Flower shape
may improve over the years as the plant matures, but I expect this is simply because not all siblings of a cross will look the same. Some will have wider blooms and some more narrow; some will have more spots and some may have less. It's the same in humans, too.
This is also why certain cultivars of a cross are given names (eg. Dendrobium Purple Cluster
'Dark Purple') – it's because by luck they happened to be one of the "best" outcomes of the crosses.
Most orchid breeders don't expect a high percentage of the products of a cross to be outstanding – they look for a select few to get awarded. Fred Clarke does that; when people send him pictures of their first blooms of his crosses, he decides which ones he likes and registers those ones. In a sense he's almost letting other people raise some of his crosses and then deciding which ones are good.
Here's a link to a thread started by Fairorchids showing two siblings of the same cross (they're the orange ones). One bloomed later than the other, and they're
very different.