Now another question... this bud points towards the window (I only put it outside for the pic)... should I turn it to keep it growing straight, or is turning it a big no no
Rosie, my experience has been that when the bud starts, leave it in the same position until it is fully open, or the stem can get very twisted and odd looking. You might want to stake it to keep it straight. After it's fully open, turn it around, and enjoy it.