I am soaking mine about every day. I wasn't watering it enough either. Also I have mine in bark. I'm thinking I need to change it but it came in bark so I thought it would be OK. I did re-pot it as it was so lightly potted I couldn't get it watered right at all. It was just setting in the pot with a little bit of bark in there.
It is my first of this kind. I really want it to grow.