Thanks for your reply WhiteRabbit!
My paphiopedilum bud is starting to open so I'd say it is doing perfectly fine!! I'm pretty excited about it.
The Dendrobium is probably just trying to adjust to its new conditions, because other than the buds falling it seems to be doing well. Although... I use the wooden skewers to test the wetness of the plants. After I repotted this one 2 days ago I stuck the skewer in there. When I pulled it back out the next day it had this white stuff on there. Any idea what it is?? See pic below.
I'm still worried about the oncidium, but I guess I just have to trust that it will look bad for a while before it gets better? I guess we'll see.