you guys are too funny! i too am the same way with my new found obsessions....i am so worried that i will screw something up that at the smallest thing i fret i have killed it! hehe i first started with well four Phals.....then for my bday a couple days ago i recieved two Paphs.....and well i was at the garden store today....came home with a dendrobium........hehe this is fun.....!!!