They don't have to be bone dry by night.
I try to water mine in early part of the day along with my other orchids, but in the past I mainly watered my tolumnias at night. lol
I can say I grow these quite well.
One thing about warm growing orchids and having them wet at the root at night is that if the temperature at night drops significantly in your growing condition, they might suffer. then again, when you water orchids in pot, they will be somewhat moist even at night and that is not a problem. bone dry by night would mean you have a mounted tolumnia and/or you have to water everyday.
Regarding light, these need a lot of light to grow and bloom well.
If your east window gets the sun in the first half of the day, that should be good enough. I wouldn't recommend north window for anything other than ferns or some African violets.
I grow mine by the south window with minimal shade, so mine grow in nearly full sun (filtered by the glass).
I keep them dryish during the winter or when they are not actively growing, but still this comes down to about at least twice a week watering.
During the hot summer, I water a lot more.
Water good especially when you spot a spike otherwise you will lose that spike or have a minimal number of flowers.
Happy growing!