Thank you both for your answers.
I still have a few unanswered questions.
One of my dends recently lost its flowers but also had two young growths that were in spike. The mature plant has no leaves now, indicating that it should maybe rest, so I watered less and the spikes on the new growths died. What did I do wrong? Should I have lessened the watering or continued as normal?
I also have another dend, three mature growths, two have lost all there leaves, one has three leaves left only and in spike (the spikes don't look like they will flower though). It is currently resting. It also has one tiny new growth. Again, should I stop watering or not?
Also, they are sitting in a coldish location (between 15 and 18 celsius max, colder at night), but it can be quite humid (up to 70% sometimes). Is this too humid for the resting period?
my dends look healthy enough, but I just can't seem to get the spike to bloom