Ok. So I am going to be getting my first paph soon. I understand they need about the same temps and light as a phal, BUT I need to know when to water and how to tall if the thing needs water! Also can I plant it in the phal bark mix from repotme.com? I know they make a special mix for paphs but I am getting a phal and they both will come in sphagnum, and I don't want to spend all thar much