Welcome to the OB. I'm sure that you'll find people here who can help... with the phals at least, you're on your own with your hubby.
I'm not a phal expert - but I'd say from the pics yours look generally healthy to me. The leaves are a nice green color and they look plump and smooth. The surface roots look healthy too. They leaves are slightly red/purple at the edges so it looks like they're getting enough light.
Have you been giving them a temperature drop in the fall? It's my understanding that with phals, if they have a fairly constant temperature in the day and in the night, that they'll assume that it must be summer and continue to grow leaves to maximize their exposure to the summer sun. Once you introduce a serious nighttime temperature drop (15 degrees or so) they think that the summer is over, they stop focusing their energy on
leaf production and they start focusing their energy on...
reproduction. They'll use all the excess energy they stored up during the "summer" from all those leaves and start putting out flower spikes.
It works for me - I give my phals a few weeks of nighttime temps around 55 F, and I generally see flower spikes in the winter.
Good luck and
don't give up!
- J