First off, hi.
Okay on to the info.
1. Please remove the Spanish Moss. It's
not real moss. It's a
bromeliad. Specifically the scientific name is
Tillandsia usneoides. I understand that not everybody knows that Spanish Moss is actually a
bromeliad, so don't feel bad. If you're watering the Spanish Moss, you're essentially growing
Tillandsia usneoides along with your Phalaenopsis. It will
not help retain moisture for your Phal (Phal is the actual scientific abbreviation for Phalaenopsis).
If you like the way
Tillandsia usneoides (Spanish Moss) looks, grow it separately.
Here's a link to some info on Spanish Moss on Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spanish_moss
As you may have already guessed, I also grow bromeliads!
Bromeliads was what got me into orchids.
Real moss are non-flowering and non-vascular plants.
2. Addressing the second photo of a Phal...
Is the moss top dressing (now this is real moss)? If it is, I think it may need to be changed out. It doesn't look very good, I believe it may be broken down to some degree.
I do not recommend growing Phalaenopsis in full moss.
3. As was stated, your fertilizer should be
urea free. It really doesn't matter what brand you use. And the N-P-K ratio doesn't have to exactly be 20-20-20, (although there are some available). As long as it's close enough, you're golden.
4. I recommend taking a look at these photos of Phals growing in the wild, then you can get the wheels turning on how to grow your Phals. Really take the photo in. Don't just look at them as "pretty pictures", they're not meant to be linked to this post as "pretty pictures". They're meant to be learning tools.
http://www.flickr.com/search/?q=Phalaenopsis+in+situ
If you have more questions don't hesitate to ask.