leave the ones that are in spike alone. generally the first few weeks after a plant blooms is the optimum time to repot anyway. in general, times of active root growth (as evidenced by green tips and new roots emerging from the plant) are the best time to repot.
choose the pot size based on the size of the root ball, not the size of the leaves. you want the smallest pot that the roots will fit in without cramming them too tightly. typically this is MUCH smaller than you would use for a standard houseplant in dirt.
as for the droopy buds, a picture is worthwhile. use an image editing program or microsoft powertools picture resizer to shrink it down to more manageable size.
click here for info on picture resizer. to upload it to your gallery, just click "gallery" in the left hand menu bar, then click "upload photos" in the upper right and follow the prompts that appear.