Lee, those infraction/report post icons are above every members posts from the very beginning. It does not at all mean that you received an infraction. The infraction icon is mainly used to ban spammers (ads for cell phones and stuff like that) Otherwise, those icons are there for members to give someone a warning (or report it to mods) that someone has written something extremely inappropriate/insulting/containing lots of bad language (for example). That never ever has happened here to my knowledge but those icons are there just in case. That way if there ever is a very rude/mean member, there is a way to deal with it. I hope it is clear this time!
As for your orchid, I can be of no help, I don't grow this one! I hope you will get blooms soon!